Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Waitress


I had high hopes, buoyed by its 89% at Rotten Tomatoes and its highly amusing trailer. The story concerns Jenna (Kerri Russell) who is a small southern town waitress working at a pie shop. In one of the early scenes of the film, Jenna discovers that she is pregnant and the news disappoints her. She’s in an unhappy marriage with Earl, a thuggish lout, and is making plans to leave him. The impending baby throws a rattle into those plans.

Her only friends are her two coworkers, Becky and Dawn, who support and encourage her. They spend a lot of time discussing their two failing marriages (Becky’s husband has been an invalid for years) and failing dating relationships (Dawn cannot find a man).

Jenna has one old customer who owns the pie shop and is a rascally curmudgeon named Joe (Andy Griffith). He plays the wise old man and is very insightful as he alternately barks orders, and flirts with Jenna. He sees something special in her.

When pregnant Jenna makes her first appointment to see her obstetrician (the same small town doctor who delivered her) she discovers that her obstetrician has retired and a new, young handsome doctor, Dr. Pomatter, has taken her place. There is chemistry between them. Because they are both married, they have initial misgivings. But this is Hollywood after all so they consummate their affair and keep their relationship as clandestine as possible throughout the rest of the film.

The film ends with her baby’s birth which triggers a few decisions in Jenna’s life. She decides to leave her husband and to break off her affair with the doctor. Joe dies and leaves a lot of money to Jenna which she uses to buy the diner and name it Lulu’s after her new baby daughter.


Three things I liked:

1. There is an underlying Pro-Life element to the picture. She briefly considers an abortion, but rejects it almost immediately. Although she laments her pregnancy throughout the film, her daughter’s birth proves transformative.

2. The voice-overs. It is intrinsically difficult in a film to give voice to the character’s thoughts. But Waitress has a useful method of accomplishing that here. Whenever Jenna feels an intense emotion she channels it into a pie. Thus the names of the pies she devises are: “Screaming-Crying Baby in the Middle of the Night Pie,” "I Hate My Husband Pie," and "I Can't Handle an Affair Because It's Wrong & I Don't Want Earl to Kill Me Pie" etc. That makes a nice (and hunger-inducing) method to give the viewer access into Jenna’s mind as she’s sorting through these emotions.

3. The cast. I really liked the casting of Andy Griffith and Kerri Russell. Griffith is such an icon that he’s very hard not to like, even though he plays somewhat of a unctuous scoundrel. Russell is luminescent, a future star.


Three things I didn’t like:

1. It is a very white movie. This is not something I typically notice, but there are no blacks in the film. Not what I would expect from a small southern town.

2. The film's inconsistency in mood. Waitress crosses the fine line between reaching for magical realism and simply being over the top. When Jenna finds happiness in her relationship with Dr. Pomatter, she walks through several scenes with a grin (intentionally) pasted on her face. I think the director was trying to depict the fantasy world that a clandestine relationship provides, but it looked a little over the top. More cheesy than anything else.

3. The portrayal of affairs. But my primary objection to the film is its portrayal of the various affairs ongoing throughout the film. Becky, Jenna’s friend, articulates the sentiment I find most offensive. She’s married to a man who is now an invalid and has been out of his mind for several years. To her shock, Jenna discovers that Becky has been having an affair with the boss of their diner, Cal. Jenna asks Becky if she loves him. Becky replies “Love Cal? I don’t know, but I love IT! I love having someone to look pretty for. I love waking up and there’s something to look forward to. Something fun, and sneaky, and sexy!”

Although I don’t doubt that the attendant emotional feelings to an affair can be as intoxicating as the relationship itself, the film doesn’t explore the problems and consequences of the affair. In both cases, with Becky and Cal, Jenna and Dr. Pomatter, they each end up happy and regret free. Even when Jenna breaks off the affair with Dr. Pomatter, she says “I could never thank you enough for everything you’ve done for me.”

For a lighthearted comedy that is billed as “uplifiting” and supposedly depicts reality, this depiction of affairs was a glaring oversight. In Waitress, affairs are therapeutic and, at times, necessary to allow a person to realize their full potential. I simply reject that perspective.

For these reasons I didn’t enjoy the film and would not recommend it.

***I should note that the writer and director of this film, Adrienne Shelly, was brutally murdered shortly after its completion. Obviously a tragic event.

Monday, January 21, 2008

Sunday, Sunday

Isn’t it supposed to be a day of rest?

Yesterday we had an 8:30am Sunday School Teacher’s Meeting, followed by Sunday School and Worship service. A quick lunch and trip home prepared us for returning at 4:30 for Praise Team Practice, evening worship, and then our end of the year stewardship committee meeting.

The family left after the evening service without me and by the time I got home the kids were in bed and Kadie was exhausted and heading bedward herself. Because today is a day off I wanted to spend with the family, I decided to go on in to work and get lectures together for Tuesday. (Fortunately, we live close to my office).

I got back home around 11:30pm and went to bed.

No real point to this entry other than the fact that we are all very busy!

Monday, January 14, 2008

That’d Be About Right

The Council for Christian Colleges and Universities is a loose affiliation of Christian schools through the US. I check their job site from time to time to see what’s out in the field. I came across the following job ad recently.

(For the unitiniatied, read here.)

Thursday, January 10, 2008

BFMOTY

My first Bad Father Moment of The Year (BFMOTY) occurred on Monday. The morning was atypical. First, it was Squealer’s birthday as he turned five years old. Plus, two new kids shattered our normal morning routine. Kadie has an RN coworker who needed us to take her two boys to school for her. They go to Skeeter’s school and we were glad to do it.

The two kids arrived at 6:30 am and we fed them breakfast. They are nine and seven and, naturally, overflowing with excess energy. When Squealer wandered in at 7:00 he saw two strange boys sitting at his breakfast table eating oatmeal. Since Squealer had just awakened, he stared his unfocusing eyes at these two strangers at his table. In a thoughtless moment, I instinctively blurted out “Squealer, these are your two new brothers. Happy Birthday!” Much to the laughter of all.

After the boys finished their breakfast they proceeded to chase, push, and tickle Squealer until they went off to school. Squealer loved it. That night as Squealer prepared for bed, he prayed “Thank you God for my brothers.” Then the next morning as he wandered into the kitchen populated only by his two sisters, and asked plaintively “Where are my brothers?”

Making matters even worse was the fact that I was out of town and Kadie had to explain to Squealer that I was just joking the day before.

When I returned she told me the whole story and I said “Thanks for cleaning up after my mess.”

“Yet again” she added.

Wednesday, January 09, 2008

2008 Goals

I'm lousy at resolutions, but goals sound much more manageable.

Three Personal Goals for 2008:

Have a family devotional four nights a week


We've slipped off in this area. In 2007, we had family devotionals at the end of the day, but were very inconsistent. Kadie's night shift work means that she will be at home far more often in the evenings and they can truly be family devotionals. Time flees and these kids are growing up!

Lose weight, then keep it off.

In 2007 I succeeded in the first part, but failed in the second part. More exercise will be helpful, including a prodigious amount of time spent on the trampoline.


Learn to play the hammered dulcimer.

Years ago, in a fit of Rich Mullins love, I purchased a Hammered Dulcimer. When we moved to our current locale, I couldn't find a teacher in the area, so I gave it up. Time to resurrect it.
We'll revisit these goals in 2009. Or not.

Wednesday, January 02, 2008

The "Best" of 2007

This was a mixed bag year, blogwise. I offer you a baker’s dozen of past posts…

A wrestling injury reveals a major difference between Scooter and Skeeter.

The Sherri Klouda situation at Southwestern reminds me of what a woman taught me.

In February of 2007, I took a trip to my home town.

A wonderful 40th birthday bash for Kadie. (And the related lies I told my wife).

With the family away, I miss them.

Two important lessons from Mrs. Mozelle.

Woo-Hoo!!!!

The post in which I discover I possess two laughs.

Once upon a time, there was a beautiful couple

The most highly visited blog entry of the year, I didn’t even write.

A visit from the Four Hobby-horsemen of The Apocalypse.

Working with artists can be different.

And finally, my personal favorite:

Insect and fowl vocational advice from the Colonel.